The person who loves is not one who will want to be mistaken for the other, whether a better or a poorer, and the person who lacks this deference to himself and to the other does not love.
 Søren Kierkegaard, Either/Or (1843). copy citation

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Author Søren Kierkegaard
Source Either/Or
Topic love
Date 1843
Language English
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Note Translated by Alastair Hannay
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