“ If a person wants to take drugs, in the form of sex or whatever, that’s their problem; the consequences of their actions will be better or worse depending on the choices they make. But if we are talking in terms of making progress in life, we must understand that “good enough” is very different from “best.”
Contrary to what my clients think, sex cannot be practiced at any time. ”
 Paulo Coelho, Eleven Minutes (2003). copy citation