Men, being accustomed to act on reflection themselves, are a great deal too apt to believe that women act on reflection, too.
 Wilkie Collins, No Name (1862). copy citation

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Author Wilkie Collins
Source No Name
Topic women reflection
Date 1862
Language English
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“Give her time enough to reflect on what she has done, and to regret it (as I believe she will regret it) in secret; trust to my influence over her to plead your cause for you at every opportunity I can find; wait patiently for the right moment, and ask her again. Men, being accustomed to act on reflection themselves, are a great deal too apt to believe that women act on reflection, too. Women do nothing of the sort. They act on impulse; and, in nine cases out of ten, they are heartily sorry for it afterward. “In the meanwhile, you must help your own interests by inducing your uncle to alter his opinion, or at least to make the concession of keeping his opinion to himself.” source