We are so blind that we know neither when to mourn, nor when to rejoice
 Montesquieu, Persian Letters (1721). copy citation

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Author Montesquieu
Source Persian Letters
Topic mourning
Date 1721
Language English
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Note Translated by John Davidson
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Context

“What good purpose do these ceremonies serve, with all the doleful shows that are paraded before a dying man in his last moments: the very tears of his family and the grief of his friends exaggerate for him the loss he is about to sustain. We are so blind that we know neither when to mourn, nor when to rejoice; our mirth and our sadness are nearly always false. When I see the Great Mogul foolishly place himself once a year in a balance to be weighed like an ox; when I see his people applaud the increase in weight of their prince, that is to say, the decrease in his capacity to govern them, my heart, Ibben, bleeds for the extravagance of humanity.” source