A poor woman is not even allowed to burn herself when she has a mind to!
 Montesquieu, Persian Letters (1721). copy citation

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Author Montesquieu
Source Persian Letters
Topic women mind
Date 1721
Language English
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Note Translated by John Davidson
Weblink https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Persian_Letters

Context

“but since, in the countries subject to the Mohammedans, they have abolished to the best of their ability that cruel custom, he refused her absolutely. When she saw that her prayers were in vain, she flew into a transport of rage. “Look you,” said she, “how you torment me! A poor woman is not even allowed to burn herself when she has a mind to! Did one ever see the like! My mother, my aunt, my sisters, were all decently burned! And, when I come to ask permission of this confounded governor, he gets angry, and begins raging like a madman.” A young bonze1 happened to be present.” source