It is a misfortunate not to be loved, but to have love withdrawn from one is an outrage.
 Montesquieu, Persian Letters (1721). copy citation

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Author Montesquieu
Source Persian Letters
Topic love
Date 1721
Language English
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Note Translated by John Davidson
Weblink https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Persian_Letters

Context

“Had they watched well my transports they would have felt the difference between their love and mine; it would have been plain to them that, though they might dispute the palm of beauty, they could not vie with me in tenderness...But what is this? Where has this vain rehearsal led me? It is a misfortunate not to be loved, but to have love withdrawn from one is an outrage. You abandon us, Usbek, to wander in barbarous climes. What! Do you count it as nothing to be loved? Alas! You do not even know what it is you lose! The sighs I heave there is none to hear; my falling tears are not by to pity.” source