Every man is actually weak, and apparently strong. To himself, he seems weak; to others, formidable.
 Ralph Waldo Emerson, Prudence (1841). copy citation

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Author Ralph Waldo Emerson
Source Prudence
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Date 1841
Language English
Reference in "Essays: First Series"
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“The drover, the sailor, buffets it all day, and his health renews itself at as vigorous a pulse under the sleet, as under the sun of June. In the occurrence of unpleasant things among neighbours, fear comes readily to heart, and magnifies the consequence of the other party; but it is a bad counsellor. Every man is actually weak, and apparently strong. To himself, he seems weak; to others, formidable. You are afraid of Grim; but Grim also is afraid of you. You are solicitous of the good-will of the meanest person, uneasy at his ill-will. But the sturdiest offender of your peace and of the neighbourhood, if you rip up his claims, is as thin and timid as any;” source