we are happy from possessing what we like, not from possessing what others like.
 François de La Rochefoucauld, Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims (1665). copy citation

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Author François de La Rochefoucauld
Source Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims
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Date 1665
Language English
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Note Translated by J. W. Willis Bund
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“46.—The attachment or indifference which philosophers have shown to life is only the style of their self love, about which we can no more dispute than of that of the palate or of the choice of colours. 47.—Our temper sets a price upon every gift that we receive from fortune. 48.—Happiness is in the taste, and not in the things themselves; we are happy from possessing what we like, not from possessing what others like. 49.—We are never so happy or so unhappy as we suppose. 50.—Those who think they have merit persuade themselves that they are honoured by being unhappy, in order to persuade others and themselves that they are worthy to be the butt of fortune.” source