So weak persons who are always excited by passions are seldom really possessed of any.
 François de La Rochefoucauld, Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims (1665). copy citation

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Author François de La Rochefoucauld
Source Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims
Topic passion
Date 1665
Language English
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Note Translated by J. W. Willis Bund
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“475.—The desire to be pitied or to be admired often forms the greater part of our confidence. 476.—Our envy always lasts longer than the happiness of those we envy. 477.—The same firmness that enables us to resist love enables us to make our resistance durable and lasting. So weak persons who are always excited by passions are seldom really possessed of any. 478.—Fancy does not enable us to invent so many different contradictions as there are by nature in every heart. 479.—It is only people who possess firmness who can possess true gentleness. In those who appear gentle it is generally only weakness, which is readily converted into harshness.” source