“ Those who have only one kind of wit cannot please for long unless they can take different roads, and not both use the same talents, thus adding to the pleasure of society, and keeping the same harmony that different voices and different instruments should observe in music ”
François de La Rochefoucauld, Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims (1665). copy citation
Author | François de La Rochefoucauld |
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Source | Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims |
Topic | society music |
Date | 1665 |
Language | English |
Reference | |
Note | Translated by J. W. Willis Bund |
Weblink | http://www.gutenberg.org/files/9105/9105-h/9105-h.htm |
Context
“The intercourse of gentlemen cannot subsist without a certain kind of confidence; this should be equal on both sides. Each should have an appearance of sincerity and of discretion which never causes the fear of anything imprudent being said.
There should be some variety in wit. Those who have only one kind of wit cannot please for long unless they can take different roads, and not both use the same talents, thus adding to the pleasure of society, and keeping the same harmony that different voices and different instruments should observe in music; and as it is detrimental to the quiet of society, that many persons should have the same interests, it is yet as necessary for it that their interests should not be different.
We should anticipate what can please our friends, find out how to be useful to them so as to exempt them from annoyance, and when we cannot avert evils, seem to participate in them, insensibly obliterate without attempting to destroy them at a blow, and place agreeable objects in their place, or at least such as will interest them.”
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