Youth is careless, and, as it is hard work to bring up three children, especially when they are of another bed, you must have a good soul, wise and gentle, and well used to work.
 George Sand, The Devil's Pool (1846). copy citation

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Author George Sand
Source The Devil's Pool
Topic youth work
Date 1846
Language English
Reference
Note Translated by Jane Minot Sedgwick and Ellery Sedgwick
Weblink https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Devils_Pool_(1895)

Context

“"It is only justice, my son, to say that you have always listened to the friendly advice and good judgment of the head of the house. So let us consult about your choice of a new wife. First, I don't advise you to take a young girl. That is not what you need. Youth is careless, and, as it is hard work to bring up three children, especially when they are of another bed, you must have a good soul, wise and gentle, and well used to work. If your wife is not about the same age as you, she will have no reason to accept such a duty. She will find you too old and your children too young. She will be complaining, and your children will suffer."” source