A lover should make his court where his heart is engaged; he should win the favour of everyone
 Molière, The Learned Ladies (1672). copy citation

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Author Molière
Source The Learned Ladies
Topic heart court
Date 1672
Language English
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Note Translated by Charles Heron Wall
Weblink https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/The_Learned_Women

Context

“His writings, his speeches, in short, everything in him is unpleasant to me; and I feel towards him as you do. But as he possesses great ascendancy over my mother, you must force yourself to yield somewhat. A lover should make his court where his heart is engaged; he should win the favour of everyone; and in order to have nobody opposed to his love, try to please even the dog of the house. CLI. Yes, you are right; but Mr. Trissotin is hateful to me. I cannot consent, in order to win his favour, to dishonour myself by praising his works.” source