People are lucky and unlucky not according to what they get absolutely, but according to the ratio between what they get and what they have been led to expect.
 Samuel Butler, The Note-Books of Samuel Butler (1912). copy citation

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Author Samuel Butler
Source The Note-Books of Samuel Butler
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Date 1912
Language English
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“Nature is usually taken to mean mountains, rivers, clouds and undomesticated animals and plants. I am not indifferent to this half of nature, but it interests me much less than the other half. Lucky and Unlucky People are lucky and unlucky not according to what they get absolutely, but according to the ratio between what they get and what they have been led to expect. Definitions i As, no matter what cunning system of checks we devise, we must in the end trust some one whom we do not check, but to whom we give unreserved confidence, so there is a point at which the understanding and mental processes must be taken as understood without further question or definition in words.” source