To die completely, a person must not only forget but be forgotten, and he who is not forgotten is not dead.
 Samuel Butler, The Note-Books of Samuel Butler (1912). copy citation

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Author Samuel Butler
Source The Note-Books of Samuel Butler
Topic forgetting
Date 1912
Language English
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“If we would retain personal identity at all, we must continue it beyond what we call death, in which case death ceases to be what we have hitherto thought it, that is to say, the end of our being. We cannot have both personal identity and death too. Complete Death To die completely, a person must not only forget but be forgotten, and he who is not forgotten is not dead. This is as old as non omnis moriar and a great deal older, but very few people realise it. Life and Death When I was young I used to think the only certain thing about life was that I should one day die.” source