There is only one way to win hearts and that is to make oneself like unto those of whom one would be loved.
 W. Somerset Maugham, The Painted Veil (1925). copy citation

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Author W. Somerset Maugham
Source The Painted Veil
Topic love heart
Date 1925
Language English
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“"It is wonderful to see the adoration that all your orphans have for you, Mother," she said. "I think I should be very proud if I could excite so great a devotion." The Mother Superior gave once more her aloof and yet beautiful smile. "There is only one way to win hearts and that is to make oneself like unto those of whom one would be loved." lxi Walter did not come back to dinner that evening. Kitty waited for him a little, for when he was detained in the city he always managed to send her word, but at last she sat down. She made no more than a pretence of eating the many courses which the Chinese cook, with his regard for propriety notwithstanding pestilence and the difficulty of provisioning, invariably set before her;” source