Now, ought a man to feel pleasure in seeing another do what he hates and abominates in himself?
 Plato, The Republic. copy citation

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Author Plato
Source The Republic
Topic pleasure hate
Date
Language English
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Note Translated by Benjamin Jowett
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Context

“When we hear some passage in which a hero laments his sufferings at tedious length, you know that we sympathize with him and praise the poet; and yet in our own sorrows such an exhibition of feeling is regarded as effeminate and unmanly (Ion) . Now, ought a man to feel pleasure in seeing another do what he hates and abominates in himself? Is he not giving way to a sentiment which in his own case he would control?—he is off his guard because the sorrow is another's; and he thinks that he may indulge his feelings without disgrace, and will be the gainer by the pleasure.” source