“ A woman means by Unselfishness chiefly taking trouble for others; a man means not giving trouble to others. ”
C. S. Lewis, The Screwtape Letters (1942). copy citation
Author | C. S. Lewis |
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Source | The Screwtape Letters |
Topic | women trouble |
Date | 1942 |
Language | English |
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Weblink | https://www.truechristianity.info/en/the_screwtape_letters.php |
Context
“Thanks to this you can, from the very outset, teach a man to surrender benefits not that others may be happy in having them but that he may be unselfish in forgoing them. That is a great point gained. Another great help, where the parties concerned are male and female, is the divergence of view about Unselfishness which we have built up between the sexes. A woman means by Unselfishness chiefly taking trouble for others; a man means not giving trouble to others. As a result, a woman who is quite far gone in the Enemy's service will make a nuisance of herself on a larger scale than any man except those whom Our Father has dominated completely; and, conversely, a man will live long in the Enemy's camp before he undertakes as much spontaneous work to please others as a quite ordinary woman may do every day.”
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