The self that he despairingly wants to be is a self that he is not (for to will to be the self that he is in truth is the very opposite of despair) , that is, he wants to tear his self away from the power that established it.
 Søren Kierkegaard, The Sickness Unto Death (1849). copy citation

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Author Søren Kierkegaard
Source The Sickness Unto Death
Topic truth despair
Date 1849
Language English
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Note Translated
 by Howard V. Hong and 
Edna H. Hong
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