“ Every man alone is sincere. At the entrance of a second person, hypocrisy begins. ”
Ralph Waldo Emerson, Friendship (1841). copy citation
Author | Ralph Waldo Emerson |
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Source | Friendship |
Topic | hypocrisy sincerity loneliness |
Date | 1841 |
Language | English |
Reference | in "Essays: First Series" |
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Weblink | https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Essays:_First_Series/Friendship |
Context
“I am arrived at last in the presence of a man so real and equal, that I may drop even those undermost garments of dissimulation, courtesy, and second thought, which men never put off, and may deal with him with the simplicity and wholeness with which one chemical atom meets another. Sincerity is the luxury allowed, like diadems and authority, only to the highest rank, that being permitted to speak truth, as having none above it to court or conform unto. Every man alone is sincere. At the entrance of a second person, hypocrisy begins. We parry and fend the approach of our fellow-man by compliments, by gossip, by amusements, by affairs. We cover up our thought from him under a hundred folds. I knew a man, who, under a certain religious frenzy, cast off this drapery, and, omitting all compliment and commonplace, spoke to the conscience of every person he encountered, and that with great insight and beauty.”
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