I'm not sure that men are the fondest of those who try to be useful to them.
 George Eliot, Adam Bede (1859). copy citation

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Author George Eliot
Source Adam Bede
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Date 1859
Language English
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“You'll want a portly rector to complete the picture, and take his tithe of all the respect and honour you get by your hard work. Only don't set your heart too strongly on the goodwill you are to get in consequence. I'm not sure that men are the fondest of those who try to be useful to them. You know Gawaine has got the curses of the whole neighbourhood upon him about that enclosure. You must make it quite clear to your mind which you are most bent upon, old boy—popularity or usefulness—else you may happen to miss both.”” source