If our education teaches us kindness and humanity, we shall be polite, or we shall have no need of politeness.
 Jean-Jacques Rousseau, Emile, or On Education (1762). copy citation

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Author Jean-Jacques Rousseau
Source Emile, or On Education
Topic humanity politeness
Date 1762
Language English
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Note Translated by Barbara Foxley
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Context

“those only who lack this goodwill are compelled to reduce the outward signs of it to an art. "The worst effect of artificial politeness is that it teaches us how to dispense with the virtues it imitates. If our education teaches us kindness and humanity, we shall be polite, or we shall have no need of politeness. "If we have not those qualities which display themselves gracefully we shall have those which proclaim the honest man and the citizen; we shall have no need for falsehood. "Instead of seeking to please by artificiality, it will suffice that we are kindly;” source