The person you love so ardently loves you, unless she is incapable of love or quite bereft of judgment.
 George Sand, Mauprat (1837). copy citation

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Author George Sand
Source Mauprat
Topic love judgment
Date 1837
Language English
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Note Translated by John Oliver Hobbes
Weblink https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Mauprat_(Heinemann)

Context

“I said, without listening to the last part of his speech, "that, such as I am, I might make a woman happy and force her to love me, in spite of all my faults and the harm they cause?" "O lovelorn brain!" he exclaimed. "How difficult it is to distract your thoughts! . . . Well, if you wish to know, Bernard, I will tell you what I think of your love-affair. The person you love so ardently loves you, unless she is incapable of love or quite bereft of judgment." I assured him that she was as much above all other women as the lion is above the squirrel, the cedar above the hyssop, and with the help of metaphors I succeeded in convincing him. Then he persuaded me to tell him a few details, in order, as he said, that he might judge of my position with regard to Edmée.” source