“ You should let a man have the pleasure of feeling that you have done him a good turn. I don’t enter into some people’s dislike of being under an obligation: upon my word, I prefer being under an obligation to everybody for behaving well to me. ”
 George Eliot, Middlemarch (1872). copy citation

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Author George Eliot
Source Middlemarch
Topic pleasure feelings
Date 1872
Language English
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“he went on, smiling at Lydgate, “now I don’t play for money. I owe that to you, Mrs. Casaubon says.” “How?” said Lydgate, coldly. “Ah, you didn’t mean me to know it; I call that ungenerous reticence. You should let a man have the pleasure of feeling that you have done him a good turn. I don’t enter into some people’s dislike of being under an obligation: upon my word, I prefer being under an obligation to everybody for behaving well to me.” “I can’t tell what you mean,” said Lydgate, “unless it is that I once spoke of you to Mrs. Casaubon. But I did not think that she would break her promise not to mention that I had done so,” said Lydgate, leaning his back against the corner of the mantel-piece, and showing no radiance in his face.” source