When a man is proud and happy, it seems an easy task to thrust his happiness upon others, but to be repulsed on one side and blamed on the other is not a very pleasant position.
 George Sand, The Devil's Pool (1846). copy citation

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Author George Sand
Source The Devil's Pool
Topic happiness blame
Date 1846
Language English
Reference
Note Translated by Jane Minot Sedgwick and Ellery Sedgwick
Weblink https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Devils_Pool_(1895)

Context

“The child's promise set Germain to thinking. He must explain his conduct to his family and give his objections to the widow Guerin, and all the while conceal the true reasons which had made him so judicious and so decided. When a man is proud and happy, it seems an easy task to thrust his happiness upon others, but to be repulsed on one side and blamed on the other is not a very pleasant position. Fortunately, Petit-Pierre was fast asleep when they reached the farm, and Germain put him to bed undisturbed. Then he began upon all sorts of explanations. Father Maurice, seated on a three-legged stool before the door, listened with gravity;” source