Thus man loves himself, more than he loves his friend: and because he loves himself, his friend is hateful to him, if he oppose him.
 Thomas Aquinas, Summa Theologica (1274). copy citation

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Author Thomas Aquinas
Source Summa Theologica
Topic love
Date 1274
Language English
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Note Translated by Fathers of the English Dominican Province
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“For the love of pleasure is less than the love of self-preservation, to which corresponds flight from pain. Wherefore we flee from pain more than we love pleasure.
Reply Obj. 2: Hatred would never overcome love, were it not for the greater love to which that hatred corresponds. Thus man loves himself, more than he loves his friend: and because he loves himself, his friend is hateful to him, if he oppose him. Reply Obj. 3: The reason why we act with greater insistence in repelling what is hateful, is because we feel hatred more keenly. ________________________
FOURTH ARTICLE [I-II, Q. 29, Art. 4]
Whether a Man Can Hate Himself?
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