“ Herein is the sinful mother happier than the sinful father. For Hester Prynne's sake, then, and no less for the poor child's sake, let us leave them as Providence hath seen fit to place them! ”
 Nathaniel Hawthorne, The Scarlet Letter (1850). copy citation

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“Therefore it is good for this poor, sinful woman that she hath an infant immortality, a [139] being capable of eternal joy or sorrow, confided to her care,—to be trained up by her to righteousness,—to remind her, at every moment, of her fall,—but yet to teach her, as it were by the Creator's sacred pledge, that, if she bring the child to heaven, the child also will bring its parent thither! Herein is the sinful mother happier than the sinful father. For Hester Prynne's sake, then, and no less for the poor child's sake, let us leave them as Providence hath seen fit to place them! “ You speak, my friend, with a strange earnestness, ” said old Roger Chillingworth, smiling at him.
“ And there is a weighty import in what my young brother hath spoken, ” added the Reverend Mr. Wilson.” source