Alice Duer Miller

Alice Duer Miller

Summary

Portrait of Alice Duer Miller Alice Duer Miller A Clash of Sentimentalists (1903)

Criticism is so useless, with a person like yourself. For you are among those who, when accident has caused your affection to adhere, when chance has picked out a subject for idealization, care so little for truth as to call all criticism abuse.
You speak of not belittling your past feeling, "even for me." don't you see, my dear Hubert, that is the last thing in the world that I should want you to do—that indeed the quantity of your feeling for her is the only thing that now remains to my liking: the quality, since I have seen her, I but too readily recognize.
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Portrait of Alice Duer Miller Alice Duer Miller A Clash of Sentimentalists (1903)

You see I had never, with what someone has called my engaging egotism, thought that, while I was examining myself truly whether I cared for you enough, you had the high standard of your former love with which to compare your feeling for me. I always think the bond between two women who have both loved the same man a singularly close one.
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Portrait of Alice Duer Miller Alice Duer Miller A Clash of Sentimentalists (1903)

We may as well face the truth; you do not want the best. For this is what your Winnefred has shown me. Either you are one of those who love women for their pettiness and failings (which you sum up in the one offensive word "femininity", and this is the attitude that puts women in the harem) , or else you ask only that a woman should present no characteristics, good or bad, so that you may wrap her about in your own idealization, and this is the attitude that renders love after marriage impossible.
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