Anne Brontë,
The Tenant of Wildfell Hall (1920 John Murray edition…
“ But I'm not cross; I'm only sorry; for,' added she, in a low, tremulous accent, withdrawing her hand from his arm, and bending her looks on the rug, 'if you don't love me, you don't, and it can't be helped.''Very true; but who told you I didn't? Did I say I loved Annabella?''You said you adored her.''True, but adoration isn't love. I adore Annabella, but I don't love her; and I love thee, Milicent, but I don't adore thee.' In proof of his affection, he clutched a handful of her light brown ringlets, and appeared to twist them unmercifully. ”
