Anton Chekhov,
The Duel (Chekhov/Garnett) — Chapter III
“ Two minutes passed in silence."Woman plays an essential part in the life of every man," said the deacon. "You can't help that.""Yes, but to what degree? For each of us woman means mother, sister, wife, friend. To Laevsky she is everything, and at the same time nothing but a mistress. She--that is, cohabitation with her-- is the happiness and object of his life; he is gay, sad, bored, disenchanted--on account of woman; his life grows disagreeable --woman is to blame; the dawn of a new life begins to glow, ideals turn up--and again look for the woman. ”
