“ Mishnah 12
[One who says to a woman,] "I betrothed your daughter," and she says, "you betrothed none other than myself" — the relatives of the younger one are forbidden to him, and his relatives are permitted to the younger one; the relatives of the older one are permitted to him, and his relatives are forbidden to the older one. Mishnah 13
Wherever there is betrothal and no sin, the child goes after the male. ”

“ Wherever there is betrothal and there is a sin, the child goes after the flawed one. Which is this? This is a widow to the High Priest, a divorcee or a woman who has undergone the shoe-removal ceremony to an ordinary priest, a mamzeret or a Nathinitess to an (ordinary) Jew, An (ordinary) Jewess to a mamzer or Nathinite. Any [woman] for whom there is no betrothal to him [specifically] , but there is betrothal to others, the child is a mamzer. ”