Yosef Karo

“ This all applies to a married woman. A betrothed woman, however, who rebels against her husband and refuses to move into his home may be divorced against her will. Alternatively, he may marry another woman, and is given permission to do so (ibid.) . It seems to me that this all applies within 12 months. After 12 months, if he wishes to divorce her, she must accept the get even against her will, or else he is permitted to marry another woman, for a woman does not have the power to chain him forever. ”

“ Tzon barzel assets are only the appraised assets that the woman brings [into the marriage] for her husband (Tur citing Rosh) .
4 A man and woman come before the court. He say: She rebelliously refuses sexual intercourse. And she says: Not so; he and I are together in the manner of the whole world. Similarly, if she claims that he rebelliously refuses sexual intercourse, and he says: Not so. She and I are together in the manner of the whole world: we first excommunicate the one who rebels and does not admit it in court. ”

“ As long as he has not given her a get, he has no hold or claim on her, but she should nevertheless not give what is hers to others, and he may even protest, since if she dies he inherits her (ibid.) . ”