Alice Duer Miller,
The Unprepared
(1904)
“ After an appreciable silence, she said with a gasp: "Really, Exeter, I don't believe I do." "Nor I," he returned. "And do you know what I have come to think?—that no preparation is possible; that the only way to get ready to marry a person is just to marry them. That is my opinion, and I don't know whose would be more valuable." "Oh, it can't be true, Exeter!" cried Bettina, seeing the principles of her life crumbling. "There must be some preparation. If you are right, we've just wasted two years of our lives." ”
