George Gissing,
Nobodies at Home — The Friend in Need
(1895)
“ Life isn't all honey. Be thankful you wasn't born in a family like that." He was talkative how, and quite cheerful. See—he remarked—what a useful friend a pawnbroker was to the poor. Suppose that wretched woman had had no such person to call upon in her need. It wasn't charity. He didn't believe in charity. Nothing was any use that hadn't a solid basis of business. "You may give and give and you don't really help people. They must learn to help themselves." Mrs. Bellamy made strong assent, and cited instances of the demoralising effect of almsgiving. ”
