Tolkappiyar

“ Clandestine love The happenings in clandestine love are; amorousness, strong feelings, emaciation of mind and body, expressing the pain and pleasure, transgressing the bounds of modesty, seeing objects seem to be resembling his or her mind object, self forgetfulness, stupor and death-like anxiety. (9) The manifesting in clandestine love are; making bold to address the heroine, drawing her to listen his address, speaking of her graceful future, reading her mind through her streaks of smile, bringing his mind’s anguish, talking his cupid passion home to her and understanding her acceptance. ”

“ General points The love-union between man and woman in mutually realized love of five-fold behavior of strands is parallel with the union of celestial lyre-players, one among the eight forms union adopted in Vedic-literature. (1) A well matched man and woman fall in love and unite by Fate of union and diversity. Superiority in man-part is not to be put aside. (2) Incredulity (whether he or she is Heavenly figure of human figure) will arise while they appear in extraordinary beauty in each other’s view. Inferiority will never cause incredulity. ”

“ Hero is the cause for the private and public hush-hush (gossip) on secret meeting of lovers. (49) Wedding is of two kinds; 1 before gossip and after gossip. (50) Public gossip is considered as wedding life. The hero do not have rights to part except the three occasions (earning, learning, worshiping) . ”