Barry Pain,
Cynthia's Love Affairs — V. The Thousand and the Boy
(1893/94)
“ From this I drew the conclusion that Bill could not be a very nice boy, and told Ainslie as much. “Ah, but he is!” said Ainslie. “You couldn't find a better fellow at heart than old Bill. The trouble is that Bill despises women.” “How old is Bill?” “He's a month or two younger than myself, properly speaking; but then Bill's been through a good deal in the time, you know. Of course it's a pity. When a man gets to be fond of a woman, she acts as a kind of—er—a kind of steadier—that seems to—er—steady him.” ”
