Confucius,
The Sayings of Confucius
“ Tzu-chang said. This is not the same as what I had heard. A gentleman honours worth and bears with the many. He applauds goodness and pities weakness. If I were a man of great worth, what could I not bear with in others? If I am without worth, men will push me off: why should I push other men off?4. Tzu-hsia said, Though there must be things worth seeing along small ways, a gentleman does not follow them, for fear of being left at last in the mire.5. Tzu-hsia said, He that each day remembers his failings and each month forgets nothing won may be said to love learning indeed! ”
