Yosef Karo

“ In the case of a family who had someone disqualified intermingle but it was not known to the public, however, once the invalid person has assimilated, he has assimilated. If one is familiar with the disqualification he is prohibited from revealing it. Rather, she should be left with her presumption of validity because all families that have those assimilated are valid in the future. ”

“ Paragraph 11- A man should not marry a woman in one land and marry another woman in a different land lest the children of this one and that one (meaning, of each woman) pair off with each other and we find that a brother marries his sister, but a famous person and his children are well known because of him, then it is permitted (to marry women in different lands) . ”

“ If someone wants to marry an inappropriate wife, his family members may protest. If he does not want to be supervised by them, the family may make a type of sign such that their offspring will not intermingle with that of his family. ”

“ Similarly, a person who always invalidates others, for example he puts a stain on the lineage of families or on individuals and he says about them, that that they are mamzerim then we suspect him of being a mamzer. ”

“ Someone who does this will not be successful and the relationship will not be a good one because the money that a man takes along with his wife is not appropriate money; and anyone who does this is called someone who "marries for money". ”

“ Paragraph 6- A person should always make an effort to marry a scholar's daughter and to marry his daughter to a scholar. If he can't find a daughter of a scholar he marries the daughter of of the great ones of the generation and if he can't find that he marries the daughter of one of the heads of the congregations and if he can't find one of the heads of congregations he marries a collector of charity and if he he can't find that he marries a schoolteacher but his daughter should not marry an am haaretz (simpleton) . ”