“ Surely someone will like me well enough to live with me—perhaps Buff, if he continues to have the contempt for females that he now has; but anyway I shall hold on to the bright fire and the singing kettle and the bag of lollipops." She sat for a moment, absent-eyed, as if she were looking down the years; then she laughed. "But I shall be a frightfully long gaunt spinster," she said. Arthur laughed with her, and said: "Elizabeth, you aren't really a grown-up woman at all. You're a schoolboy." "I like that 'grown-up,'" she laughed; "it sounds so much less mature than the reality. ”
O. Douglas
Summary
O. Douglas’s The Setons delves into the domestic conflicts and philosophical reflections of a Scottish family through the prism of daily routines and personal relationships. Focused on Elizabeth Seton, her father James, and their circle—including Buff, Arthur Townshend, and the Thomson family—the novel weaves together themes of tea, scones, and domestic life with considerations of belief, aging, and social norms.
Witty exchanges and vivid moments, such as Elizabeth’s sharp observations about her own “gaunt spinster” destiny or her father’s spiritual idealism, highlight a story that blends humor with deep existential thought. The book’s attention to ordinary items and customs—like the “singing kettle” or “yellow-tiled grate”—uncovers underlying concerns about selfhood and relationships, portraying life as a series of transient yet significant interactions.
Quotes from The Setons (O. Douglas)
“ Thomas went on with his bread-and-butter, and a silence fell on the company. It was broken by a startled cry from Elizabeth. "Have you hurt yourself, girl?" asked her father. "No, no. It's Mrs. Veitch's scones. To think I've forgotten them! She sent them to you, Father, for your tea. Buff, run—no, I'll go myself;" and Elizabeth left the room, to return in a moment with the paper-bagful of scones. "I had finished," said Mr. Seton meekly. "We'll all have to begin again," said his daughter. "Thomas, you could eat a bit of treacle scone, I know." ”
“ Miss Christie reminded her. "Yes," said Elizabeth, "but Mrs. Veitch will perhaps be thinking we are having them to-night, and I would feel mean to neglect her present. You needn't smile in that superior way, Kirsty Christie." "They are excellent scones," said Mr. Seton, "and I'm greatly obliged to Mrs. Veitch. She is a fine woman—comes of good Border stock." "She's a dear," said Elizabeth; "though she scares me sometimes, she is so utterly sincere. That's grievous, isn't it, Father?—to think I live with such double-dealers that sincerity scares me." ”
