Thomas Hardy,
The Woodlanders
(1887)
“ But Grace clung to her position like a limpet. "You may have trifled with others, but him you love as you never loved another man.""Oh, well—I won't argue," said Mrs. Charmond, laughing faintly. "And you come to reproach me for it, child.""No," said Grace, magnanimously. "You may go on loving him if you like—I don't mind at all. You'll find it, let me tell you, a bitterer business for yourself than for me in the end. He'll get tired of you soon, as tired as can be—you don't know him so well as I—and then you may wish you had never seen him!" ”

