Philander

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Portrait of Ebenezer Cobham Brewer Ebenezer Cobham Brewer,  Character Sketches of Romance, Fiction and the Drama…

“ Philander, a dawdling lover; so called from Philander, the Dutch knight mentioned above, who was wooed by Gabrina. To “philander” is to hang about a woman in a half-hearted way; to toy.
Yes, I’ll baste you together, you and your Philander.—W. Congreve, The Way of the World (1700) .
Philander, prince of Cyprus, passionately in love with the Princess Ero ́ta.—Beaumont and Fletcher, The Laws of Candy (1647) .
Philanthropis
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Philario, an Italian, at whose house Posthumus made his silly wager with Iachimo. (See Posthumus.) —Shakespeare, Cymbeline (1605) .
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Source: Gutenberg

Edward Everett Evans,  Man of Many Minds — all chapters (1953)

“ And the best part of it is, that if you grow in those ways, that extra money will come to you, but merely as a corollary addition to the greater achievements.”
“I see your point,” Hanlon was greatly impressed by Philander's earnestness. “Maybe you're right. I'm still just a kid, I guess, with a kid's immature outlook. That's why I appreciate your friendship and advice so much, sir. You've been almost like a second father to me.” This was honest—he liked Philander now more than ever.
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Source: Wikisource

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