active 19th century M. Colmache, Reminiscences of Prince Talleyrand…
“ PRINCE TALLEYRAND’S MAXIMS FOR SEASONING CONVERSATION. Our welcome of a stranger depends upon the name he bears,—upon the coat he wears: our farewell upon the spirit he has displayed in the interview.There is so great a charm in friendship, that there is even a kind of pleasure in acknowledging oneself duped by the sentiment it inspires.Unbounded modesty is nothing more than unavowed vanity: the too humble obeisance is sometimes a disguised impertinence.The reputation of a man is like his shadow—gigantic when it precedes him, and pigmy in its proportions when it follows. ”
