Spinsterhood

Definition and stakes

Portrait of Carolyn Wells Carolyn Wells,  Betty's Happy Year

“ It was decorated with tiny witches and black cats, which were, of course, confectionery, and candles were burning all round it.
In it had been baked a thimble, signifying spinsterhood; a gold ring, betokening matrimony; a penny, meaning wealth; a gold pen for literary fame; a button for a bachelor; and many other tiny emblems of fortune, which were arranged only one to a slice.
By dint of clever manœuvering Lena arranged that Betty should get the slice with the penny in it, and this caused a shout of laughter at Betty’s expense.
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Source: Gutenberg

Portrait of Honoré de Balzac Honoré de Balzac,  The Vicar of Tours

“ Mademoiselle Salomon remained to him. But, alas, in losing his old illusions the poor priest dared not trust in any later friendship.
In the “citta dolente” of spinsterhood we often meet, especially in France, with women whose lives are a sacrifice nobly and daily offered to noble sentiments. Some remain proudly faithful to a heart which death tore from them; martyrs of love, they learn the secrets of womanhood only though their souls. Others obey some family pride (which in our days, and to our shame, decreases steadily)
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Source: Gutenberg

Portrait of Alice Morse Earle Alice Morse Earle,  In old Narragansett; romances and realities (1898)

“ The grace and beauty of wool-spinning, ever sung by the poets, need not be described. Stepping lightly backward and forward, with arms at times high in the air, now low at the side, often by the light only of the fire, the worker, no matter what her age, seemed the perfection of the grace of motion; and the beauty of the occupation makes the name of spinster (the only title by law of every single woman) a title of honor and dignity.
The preparation of flax was infinitely more tedious and more complicated.
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Source: Gutenberg

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