Mrs. Hubback, The old vicarage (1856)
“ Where the world has placed its ban on incurring obligation, or accepting favors, there it is not only prudent but proper not to trespass.”“Oh, my dear sir, the usages of society are narrow and restricted; the ban of the world is cold and cruel; they are invented to excuse selfish indolence, and silence the claims of the helpless and dependent. I would wish to set these aside, and act on my own judgment, as true friendship and kindness may require, regardless of what others may think.” ”
