Epictetus,
The Golden Sayings of Epictetus…
“ Bring him to me, and I will tell him. But to thee I have nothing to say about his anger. XXXIX When one took counsel of Epictetus, saying, “What I seek is this, how even though my brother be not reconciled to me, I may still remain as Nature would have me to be,” he replied: “All great things are slow of growth; nay, this is true even of a grape or of a fig. If then you say to me now, I desire a fig, I shall answer, It needs time: wait till it first flower, then cast its blossom, then ripen. ”
