“ Strange how you suddenly perceive an aberration like that in a man: a ready-made tie! Who on earth wears a ready-made tie nowadays! Still, he looks very well otherwise.... Nice soup, this velouté.... What a duck Constance looks! Would you ever think that she was a woman of two-and-forty! She's like Mamma: Mamma also has that softness, that distinction, that same smile; Mamma even has those dimples still, in the corners of her mouth.... ”
Tie
Definition and stakes
The tie, a garment accessory typically worn around the neck, has long symbolized social status, identity, and sartorial purpose. From Louis Couperus’s observation of a “ready-made tie” as a marker of eccentricity to Oscar Wilde’s assertion that a well-tied tie is “the first serious step in life,” authors have explored its role in shaping perception and decorum.
Whether as a symbol of restraint, as in Max Schlesinger’s view of the white tie “kill[ing] all rakishness,” or as a medium for individuality, as in R. J. Rice’s description of a “conservative black and white zebraic tie,” the tie reflects broader cultural attitudes toward formality and self-expression. These varied depictions reveal its dual function: a practical item and a silent commentator on societal norms.
Quotes about “tie”
Mrs. Aria,
Costume: Fanciful, Historical and Theatrical
“ We are grateful to-day to recognise the artistic value of the red tie of the masculine tiller of the field, or of the coloured handkerchief over the head of the harvest-woman, but, in those other times, the plains and the fields, the woods and the forests, were the background for a people in brave array, on which blue, red, green, and white played conspicuous part. And not alone in colour must their garb have been pre-eminently attractive to the eye, but in the simplicity of its make, the liberal display of white linen about the neck and the head, and the further addition of coloured lacings. ”
“ A conservative black and white zebraic tie, a type popular with professional men, was knotted neatly into his spotlessly white button-down collar and draped in graceful folds over his aud screen. Thick, horn-rimmed focals perched on his stub nose and magnified his magenta eye sockets. ”
Oscar Wilde,
The Picture of Dorian Gray
“ With an evening coat and a white tie, as you told me once, anybody, even a stockbroker, can gain a reputation for being civilised. ”
Max Schlesinger, Saunterings in and about London
“ Baxter. “A white tie, and a black dress coat, kill all rakishness and scampishness, even in the most talented individuals. Choke a man with a white tie, squeeze him tight in a black coat, and he must needs be prudent, calculating, and respectable. ”
Dorothy Canfield Fisher,
The Squirrel-Cage
“ Judge Emery sat down on the sofa in question and pulled his tie into shape. “Well, folks are always conceited who find the ordinary ways of doing things not good enough for them. Lydia, what do you think of this tie? ”
George MacDonald,
Weighed and Wanting
“ A rather thick-set man about thirty, in a rough shooting-coat of a brownish gray with many pockets, a striped shirt, and a black necktie—if tie it could be called that had so little tie in it; a big head, with rather thick and long straggling hair ”
E. Phillips Oppenheim,
Nobody's Man
“ From head to foot the man wore the wrong clothes in the wrong manner,—boots of a vivid shade of brown, thick socks without garters, an obviously ready-made suit of grey flannel, a hopeless tie, an unimaginable collar. ”
Oscar Wilde,
A Woman of No Importance
(1893)
“ A well-tied tie is the first serious step in life. ”
Philip Gibbs,
The Eighth Year: A Vital Problem of Married Life
“ One tie on week-days and another tie for Sundays are still good enough for the father, but the son buys ties by the dozen, and then has a passion for fancy socks, and lets his imagination rove into all departments of haberdashery. ”
E. A. Posselt, The Jacquard Machine Analyzed and Explained
“ A.—For fabrics requiring for their centres a straight-through tie-up and for their borders a point tie-up, one-half division of it for each border.Fig. XXXVIII. These tie-ups are used to a great extent for napkins, handkerchiefs, scarfs, and similar damask fabrics, in which the centre part of the fabric is worked on the straight-through method; the borders on each side on the point tie-up, repeating equally from [36] centre towards the selvedge. ”
Isabel Meredith, A Girl Among the Anarchists
“ When at last the longed-for, yet dreaded moment came, I was surprised, relieved, and I must add somewhat disappointed, at seeing a young man looking much like any other gentleman, except that he wore a red tie, and that his clothes were of a looser and easier fit than is usual. ”
George Griswold Livermore, Take It from Dad
“ Do you know Ted, when that rich silk tie was contrasted with my blue serge that had seen considerable service as Sunday best, I felt about as comfortable as a man in overalls wearing a plug hat.He who hesitates is sold. I hesitated, and the next thing I knew a smart young salesman was selling me a new suit, then I noticed the shoes I was wearing were patched. ”
T. F. Bell, Jacquard Weaving and Designing
“ Instead of making a gathered tie, it would be better to make a plain repeating tie for the second border, making the word CLUB on both borders as either A or B, according as they are to read correctly on the under or upper side of the cloth; but if it is desired to make the letters read correctly from both sides or edges of the cloth, as at C, it is plain that there must be hooks in the jacquard to work each border independently, as one is not a repeat of the other. ”
William De Lancey Ellwanger, The Oriental Rug
“ In order to appreciate the beauty of rugs, it is well to remember how they are made, and with what infinite patience the bits of wool are knotted onto the warp one after another, knot upon knot and tie after tie, until the perfect piece is finished. ”
T. F. Bell, Jacquard Weaving and Designing
“ In a full harness each thread in any part of the tie can be lifted independently of the others; in wide fabrics, or in order to reduce expense in narrow ones, recourse is had to gathering or repeating the tie, and like threads in each repeat must be lifted together; but in a single tie any one thread can be lifted independently of any other. In full harness there is one thread of warp drawn into each mail or eye of the harness, and one shot is given to each change of card. ”
Cora C. Klein, Practical Etiquette
“ A man should wear a white tie with a dress suit at any large formal entertainment, such as a ball, the opera, a wedding reception, a large dinner party, etc., and on all occasions where he wears a white waistcoat. He should wear a black tie at the theater, at a small dinner, in calling, and at home with his dinner coat.Evening dress may be as gay as one chooses to make it, though extremes are not desirable. ”
Oscar Wilde,
A Woman of No Importance
(1893)
“ Gerald. I should like to wear nice things awfully, but I have always been told that a man should not think too much about his clothes.Lord Illingworth. People nowadays are so absolutely superficial that they don’t understand the philosophy of the superficial. By the way, Gerald, you should learn how to tie your tie better. Sentiment is all very well for the button-hole. But the essential thing for a necktie is style. A well-tied tie is the first serious step in life. ”
Henry Ridgely Evans, Hours with the Ghosts or, Nineteenth Century Witchcraft
“ After the séance the prestidigitateur fully explained the modus operandi of the mystic tie, which is herein for the first time correctly given to the public.The medium holds out his left wrist first and has it tied securely, about the middle of the rope. Two members of the committee are directed to pull the ends of the cord vigorously. “Are you confident that the knots are securely tied?” he asks; when the committee respond “yes,” he puts his hand quickly behind him, and places against the wrist, the wrist of his right hand, in order that they may be pinioned together. ”
Theo. Stephenson Browne, In the Riding-School; Chats with Esmeralda
“ When a step collar and a man's tie are worn, the ordinary high collar and chemisette, sold for thirty-eight cents, takes the place of the straight linen band worn with the habit high in the throat, and the proper tie is the white silk scarf fastened in a four-in-hand knot, and, if you be wise, Esmeralda you will buy this at a good shop, and pay two dollars and a quarter for it, rather than to pay less and repent ever after. Some girls wear white lawn evening ties, but they are really out of place in the saddle, in which one is supposed to be in morning dress. ”
“ Now a man wearing a white tie may be either a clergyman, a gambler or a confidence man, and I had no faith in my ability to decide which of those eminent professions this particular person was most likely to adorn. ”
Francis William Lauderdale Adams,
A Child of the Age — Part IV: Chapter II.
(1894)
“ Then put on my white shirt, and found and fastened the studs, and my collar to the top stud. As I was looking for the glass-topped box that held the white ties, I thought the gas seemed burning low, and looked up at it. It was, confound it! I found the white tie-box in the shadow of the curtain, and took out a tie, and began to tie it. My fingers confused. At that instant everything in me contracted. I stared into the mirror. Brooke was looking over my right shoulder. My body was all a creeping thrill. ”
George A. Birmingham,
From Dublin to Chicago: Some Notes on a Tour in America
“ More latitude is allowed, and if a gown is hardly ever correct it is also hardly ever wrong. Every man who sits in the stalls of a London theater must display eighteen inches of white shirt above the top button of his waistcoat. In America he may wear a blue flannel shirt if he likes, and nobody cares whether it is visible beneath his tie or not. In England a man who dines in a very smart restaurant must wear a tail coat and a white tie. In America he can, if he chooses, wear a tail coat and a black tie, or a short coat and a white tie. ”
John W. Stephenson, Cutting and draping (1905)
“ As the hands meet gather all the goods into one and with the other tie a cord tightly around the gathering, the same as for the rosette, Figures 33A and 33B; the surplus above the tying may be formed into a rosette or thrown back through a ring, as illustrated. ”
Bart Haley, In the Sweet Dry and Dry
“ Many a husband, wondering desperately which hat or which tie to select, has been surprised by the appearance of one of our staff at his elbow, tactfully pointing out which article would best harmonize with his complexion and station in life. ”
“ There is, for instance, the female relative in the country who “knows a tie is always useful,” and sends you some spotted horror that you could only wear in secret or in Tottenham Court Road. It might have been useful had she kept it to tie up currant bushes with, when it would have served the double purpose of supporting the branches and frightening away the birds—for it is an admitted fact that the ordinary tomtit of commerce has a sounder æsthetic taste than the average female relative in the country. ”
Anatole France,
Crainquebille, Putois, Riquet and other profitable tales
(1915)
“ His bottle-green coat has a high collar, he wears a nankin waistcoat and his broad black silk stock tie is wound three times round his neck." "Ten years ago old men were still to be seen wearing ties like that," said Zoé. "Possibly," said Monsieur Bergeret. "But it is certain that Monsieur Malorey never wore any others." ”
Wiljalba Frikell, Hanky Panky (1872)
“ THE PENETRATIVE RING. Fasten one end of a needleful of silk, of the colour of a handkerchief, to the middle of the handkerchief, and to its hanging end tie a brass ring. Always keep the ring on your own side, so that no one can see it while you shake and rumple the handkerchief. Offer to send a ring through a cup and saucer and the table they are on. ”
Arthur Christopher Benson,
The Upton Letters
“ He has a hand like a bird's claw; and the antique shirt-front and small bow-tie denote the man who has fixed his opinions on the cut of his clothes at an early date and does not intend to modify them. ”
George Bronson-Howard,
The Red Light of Mars; or, A Day in the Life of the Devil
“ The combination of country suit with city shoes, of jabot and lingerie waist—instead of tailored waist and plain collar and tie—with cap suitable only for evening wear, serve to mark her as one who dresses with instinctive taste but without the consistency of the upper-class woman. ”
P. G. Wodehouse,
My Man Jeeves — Jeeves and the Unbidden Guest
“ What I mean is, if I weakened now, all my good work the night before would be thrown away. I braced myself."What's wrong with this tie? I've seen you give it a nasty look before. Speak out like a man! ”
Walter Germain, The Complete Bachelor: Manners for Men
“ The gloves, ties, and tie or scarf pins to be given to the best man and ushers are placed in white boxes tied with white satin ribbon and put in the outer room to be handed to each man as he bids adieu. Perhaps it might be more prudent to place them at the covers, but it would hardly be good form, as there would be in that case several of the guests without favors. ”
Michael Arlen,
The green hat
(1924)
“ It is not, of course, of the least importance whether a bow-tie falls straight or crooked, particularly on a grown-up man. It is not, after all, of the least importance whether one is clothed or naked. ”
Robert Beverley, The History of Virginia, in Four Parts
“ When that's thrown off, they have only for modesty sake a piece of cloth, or a small skin tied round their waist, which reaches down to the middle of the thigh. The common sort tie only a string round their middle, and pass a piece of cloth or skin round between their thighs, which they turn at each end over the string. ”
Margaret C. Conkling, The American Gentleman's Guide to Politeness and Fashion
“ Two items, however, in this costume, admit of disquisition amongst "men who dress," viz., the vest and the tie—both of which may be either white or black, without any infraction of the laws of bienseance. ”
William Elliot Griffis,
Japanese Fairy World
“ The white threads are the men, the red are the women. At first they select the threads very carefully, and tie a great many pairs or couples neatly and strongly together, so that the matches are perfect. All such marriages of threads make happy marriages among human beings. ”
H. Le Blanc, The Art of Tying the Cravat; Demonstrated in sixteen lessons
“ Plate A, fig 2.The great advantages of this method will be immediately perceptible, in the prevention of that disagreeable prominence which is generally produced at the back of the neck by the junction of the ends; which being brought to the front without being soiled, or tumbled in the slightest [29] degree, are more easily formed into an elegant tie.The same care and attention are necessary to the back as to the front of the Cravat. ”
Robert S. Ball,
Experimental Mechanics
“ The material suitable for a tie should be capable of offering great resistance, not only to actual rupture by tension, but even to appreciable elongation. These qualities we have found to be possessed by wood. ”
Robert Kerr, A General History and Collection of Voyages and Travels…
“ Some, who wear it long, tie it up on the crown of the head; others suffer only a large lock to grow on each side, which they tie up in clubs; many others, as well as all the women, wear it cropped short. ”
M. E. W. Sherwood,
The Art of Entertaining
“ In the early morning a young man should wear the heavy, loosely fitting English clothes now so fashionable, but for an afternoon promenade with a lady, or for a reception, 384 a frock coat tightly buttoned, gray trousers, a neat tie, and plain gold pin is very good form. ”
“ With outside D on the right work to center in DDHH so that last knot is 1 inch below HB. Repeat with outside D on the left. With these 2 leaders in the center tie 3 VHH. Work these leaders in opposite directions forming an X with last knot 1 inch below center of X. With left outside D work a HB across the entire piece. Using same length as leader work back to the left. Starting on the left * with D tie 8 VHH, with C tie 7, with B tie 3, with A tie 3, with A tie 2 *. Repeat between *’s in reverse. Cross center A lengths over each other having four to the left and four to the right. ”
Lillian Eichler,
Book of Etiquette, Volume 2, Part 3…
(1921)
“ The younger man is well-dressed for the garden party when he wears a suit of white flannel or serge with colored or white linen, a bright tie, straw or panama hat, and oxfords of white or black, or a combination of white and black. ”
Atharva-Veda Samhita (1905)
“ I tie together the highest, together the lowest, also together the middle ones; Indra hath encompassed them with a tie; do thou, Agni, tie them together. The comm. reads paramām, avamām, and madhyamām in a, b, supplying çatrusenām in each case. ⌊The r of ahār is prescribed by Prāt. ii. 46.J⌋ 3. They yonder who come to fight, having made their ensigns, in troops—Indra hath encompassed them with a tie; do thou, Agni, tie them together. ”
Ellery Clark Gregg, How to Tie Flies
“ Lay two horse hairs lengthwise on top of the hook for the feelers, wind tying silk over them down the hook, tie in the rubber band by the very tip of the taper, wind the tying silk back to the starting point, and be sure that the tying silk is wound smoothly. ”
J. M. Barrie,
Peter and Wendy - Margaret Ogilvy
(1912)
“ "Why, what is the matter, father dear?" "Matter!" he yelled; he really yelled. "This tie, it will not tie." ”
Walter Cox Green, The Book of Good Manners; a Guide to Polite Usage for All Social Functions
“ MEN—DRESS. A man should wear either a black frock coat or a black cutaway, with the necktie, gloves, and other parts of the dress as subdued as possible. Under no conditions should light ties or light-colored linen be worn. ”
George M. Baker, Little Brown Jug
“ Act 2, Rusty velvet coat, flaming necktie, dark pants and vest, gold chain, jockey cap, all soiled and worn. Act 3, Neat and tasty dress.Ned. Act 1, About the same as Will’s. Act 2, Dark pants, white shirt, with black tie, dressing-gown. Act 3, Neat business suit. ”
